Cre­at­ing Space – the neglect­ed lead­er­ship task

A small story about why the most effective leadership is often the kind that leaves things out.

When we think about lead­er­ship, we usu­al­ly think about answers. About some­one who knows the way, who pro­vides direc­tion, who decides. And yes, that is need­ed. Yet the longer we work with organ­i­sa­tions, the more often we encounter a dif­fer­ent pic­ture – one that qui­et­ly con­tra­dicts that notion and, pre­cise­ly for that rea­son, car­ries so much pow­er.

Heinz Janisch, who in 2024 received the Hans Chris­t­ian Ander­sen Award, the most impor­tant prize in children’s lit­er­a­ture, tells of a girl who said to him at a read­ing: “I know why you write so lit­tle – because then I have more room to think. One word, one adven­ture. On one page I write fire­ball, on the next water­fall … and then I ask the chil­dren: what else could hap­pen?”

This short sto­ry moves us, because it touch­es some­thing we often lose in adult life: trust in think­ing onwards togeth­er, in the unfin­ished, and in the pow­er of curios­i­ty and imag­i­na­tion. Chil­dren don’t need per­fect answers; they need space. And any­one who has watched a sin­gle open word set a whole flock of sto­ries in motion will sense what we mean when we call cre­at­ing space one of the most neglect­ed lead­er­ship tasks.

What if organ­i­sa­tions had more spaces like that again?

Spaces in which peo­ple don’t just search for solu­tions but explore pos­si­bil­i­ties. In which a cus­tomer com­plaint prompts not only “How do we fix this?” but also “What does this teach us about a need we’re not yet serv­ing?”. In which a casu­al remark by the cof­fee machine is allowed to become the seed of an improve­ment no one had on the agen­da. This is not a soft con­ces­sion to indi­vid­ual needs; it is the ground on which any­thing new can grow in the first place.

Most organ­i­sa­tions, how­ev­er, are trained for the oppo­site. They are built to spot risks, report devi­a­tions and solve prob­lems. That is impor­tant and nec­es­sary – and at the same time it cre­ates a blind spot. Who­ev­er is con­stant­ly look­ing for what isn’t work­ing eas­i­ly over­looks what might. Cre­at­ing space there­fore means, first of all, widen­ing that gaze on pur­pose.

The temp­ta­tion to fill the space straight away

This is where the real demand on lead­er­ship lies. Because a space that is only just emerg­ing is uncom­fort­able. It is qui­et before it becomes live­ly. Peo­ple who have worked with­in tight con­straints for years need time to under­stand free­dom as an invi­ta­tion rather than as uncer­tain­ty. Some wait to see whether the offer is meant seri­ous­ly. Oth­ers test the bound­aries, and all of them are learn­ing how to han­dle it. And it is in exact­ly that moment that the temp­ta­tion is great­est to close the space again – with a quick answer, an extra rule, a well-meant nudge.

Organ­i­sa­tions that cre­ate space and then grow impa­tient when it isn’t filled at once under­mine the very trust they are try­ing to build – often with an under­tone sug­gest­ing that peo­ple don’t want to, or can’t, take respon­si­bil­i­ty. Space needs time to be expe­ri­enced as safe. And it needs first pos­i­tive expe­ri­ences, show­ing that act­ing inde­pen­dent­ly is gen­uine­ly val­ued and not with­drawn at the next set­back. Hold­ing the space, even when it still feels emp­ty, is hard­er than fill­ing it – and more effec­tive.

Where space appears where you least expect it

Some­times space emerges where no one planned it. A team work­ing direct­ly with cus­tomers expe­ri­enced just that. The atmos­phere was tense, mutu­al reproach­es had spread, towards col­leagues and towards supe­ri­ors alike. The team was drift­ing apart, even though every­one actu­al­ly liked one anoth­er.

The change they intro­duced was remark­ably sim­ple: every morn­ing they met for five min­utes. Every­one could briefly say what was on their mind, what was dri­ving them or both­er­ing them – and how they were feel­ing. Five min­utes in which every­one knew where they stood, both on the work and emo­tion­al­ly. The work­load stayed the same, yet every­thing felt lighter. Not because the exter­nal con­di­tions had changed, but because the inner tight­ness had eased.

The qui­et lead­er­ship task

Per­haps that is the heart of it. Cre­at­ing space is so easy to neglect because it makes lit­tle show on the out­side. There is no slide on which it looks good, no met­ric that ris­es straight away – on the con­trary, it is per­ceived as inef­fi­cient time. It reveals itself only lat­er – in the ideas that sud­den­ly sur­face in every­day work, in the ener­gy with which peo­ple get involved, in the con­nec­tions that form because some­one talked to some­one else, not because a process required it.

The girl in Janisch’s sto­ry under­stood it long ago: more room to think comes not from more words, but from the right omis­sions. What if we under­stood lead­er­ship a lit­tle more like that again – as the art of offer­ing an impulse and then ask­ing: what else could hap­pen?

Stay curi­ous.

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Ruth Bolter

I share my international experiences with people in very different locations all over the world. Making connections where they are not obvious is what inspires me and what I like to make available to others.